Mutual Understanding Between Them!

Many brothers and sisters move away from each other as they grow up. A feeling of jealousy, insecurity or rivalry develops in them. In such a situation, it is necessary to nurture a delicate understanding of the bond between them.

While brothers and sisters are each other’s biggest support when they grow up, they are also each other’s competitors in childhood.

Sometimes children’s mischiefs echo in the house, and sometimes parents get upset due to their fights. When they take sides in a fight between a son and a daughter, they become bitter towards each other.

In such a situation, it is important for you to know what things should be said to them during a fight and what should not be said?

No pressure on the elder:

Whenever there is a fight between brothers and sisters, the elder child is advised to step back, saying that you are the elder and you should not act so childish.

By saying this, many times parents hurt the elder’s feelings, even if he is right. Apart from this, when there is a fight between small children, sometimes the situation reaches a scuffle.

In such a situation, parents saying that you are absolutely fine and nothing has happened can hurt the child’s heart.

Tag of meanness:

Children do not have enough sense to understand what is wrong, so if there is a fight between them, it can be wrong for the parents to call one of them mean.

Apart from this, when there is a fight between brothers and sisters, parents often take the side of one child and say why he is not as intelligent as his brother or sister.

Such sentences of his prove that between two children of the same age, one is inferior. Therefore, whenever a situation of conflict arises between a brother and sister, listen to both parties.

Intervention only when necessary:

What could be better than children resolving their conflicts at their own level? Learning how to handle conflicts with their brothers and sisters helps children develop as adults.

So as long as the children are talking in a positive and peaceful manner, do not interfere. Yes, if things escalate or become aggressive, intervene immediately.

Sit down with them and talk about what happened.

Team spirit and healthy competition:

If children fight too much among themselves, do not scold them, but sit them down, explain peacefully, and make peace between them so that there is no fight between brothers and sisters again.

It is important to tell children that family is like a team, and only with everyone’s love, cooperation, and mutual understanding can they make the house a happy home.

Sibling competition is not always bad. Many researchers do not consider competition wrong. He believes that young children often achieve heights by watching their elder siblings compete.

There is nothing wrong with healthy competition as long as both are learning from each other and not bullying each other. The differences of opinion that arise after victory or defeat will be removed only when the children are brought up properly.

Let children resolve their own conflicts. Do not intervene unless it is necessary.

Assessment of Will and Power

Generally, parents pay more attention to their sons’ education and career as they grow up. They feel that their daughters’ responsibilities end once they get married.

When daughters see the attitude of their parents, they start feeling jealousy and hatred towards their brothers, and their mutual relations start deteriorating.

Therefore, it is important that both parents assess their wishes and strengths and cooperate in moving forward.