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It’s Not Right to Fulfill the Insistence Every Time

Some children insist on getting their point across. Many times they even blackmail the parents. But fulfilling the child’s insistence every time can be harmful for him.

Sometimes the child becomes stubborn due to excessive pampering and sometimes the parents do not pay attention to the child and the child starts feeling neglected.

To attract everyone’s attention, he starts crying or being stubborn without any reason. To avoid this problem, the parents fulfill his insistence.

Then the child starts blackmailing the parents to get them to agree to everything he wants. By obeying him, he does not experience rejection, which can make him emotionally weak in the future.

Therefore, it is important that this habit of his be corrected.

First of all, some rules:

To improve this habit of children who blackmail or lie to their parents to get their wishes accepted, you will have to make some rules.

The rules should not be too difficult or strict. Make rules which the child can easily follow. Before making children follow the rules, follow them yourself. When you follow the rules, the child will also start following them.

For this, write the rules on paper and stick them on the wall. Whenever your child does not follow the rules, remind him of the rules and lovingly make him realize his mistake.

Doing this will have a good impact on the child, and he will be able to learn to behave better.

Unique happiness from hard work:

Tell the child that whatever is achieved through hard work, its happiness is unique. The mind never gets satisfaction from anything achieved through blackmail.

You can give them some examples by telling them stories. For example, when you needed something, you first did some good work, and only then could you get that thing.

Hearing such examples will create a desire to do good work in the child’s mind. By doing this, you will become an inspiration for your child.

Fulfill the demand after the target:

Set a target or goal for the child. If your child is harassing you to get his wish fulfilled and you also feel that the child’s demand is justified, then fix a time to give him that thing.

Suppose the child is insisting on a toy or game. Set a goal or target for him for a week, and only after completing it will he fulfill his demand.

By doing this, next time, before insisting, he will remember that he will have to wait for a lot of hard work and time in return, and only then will he get that thing.

This way, he will stop being stubborn.

Play Games Together:

To strengthen your relationship with your children, play a game with them from time to time. Involve children in small tasks.

Praise them for doing small tasks. Encourage to do other things. Give them a reward or gift for good work.

If you keep children busy in playing, then they have no reason to get angry or insist on anything unnecessary.

Write the rules on a paper and stick it on the wall. Whenever the child does not follow the rules, remind him.

Try to Understand

Earlier, there were joint families. Many members lived together in the house. The children did not suffer from loneliness. Today the family has become smaller. In most families, both parents work.

Due to being busy, they are not able to give attention or time to the child, due to which the child becomes stubborn and irritable after seeing others.

Due to this, there is a danger of developing the wrong habits. To build a stronger bond with your child, prepare his/her favorite food at home. Make a plan to travel somewhere on your holiday.

Try to understand his views and needs. By doing this, there will be good bonding between you and the child.

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